Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Quotes on Wisdom, By Chanakya.

The man who remains a fool even in advanced age is really a fool, just as the Indra-Varuna fruit does not become sweet no matter how ripe it might become.

The cuckoos remain silent for a long time (for several seasons) until they are able to sing sweetly (in the Spring) so as to give joy to all.

We should not feel pride in our charity, austerity, valor, scriptural knowledge, modesty and morality for the world is full of the rarest gems.

Drop the idea that attachment and love are one thing. They are enemies. It is attachment that destroys all love.

Wealth, a friend, a wife, and a kingdom may be regained; but this body when lost may never be acquired again.

Poverty, disease, sorrow, imprisonment and other evils are the fruits borne by the tree of one’s own sins.

There are three gems upon this earth; food, water, and pleasing words — fools (mudhas) consider pieces of rocks as gems.

As a calf follows its mother among a thousand cows, so the (good or bad) deeds of a man follow him.

Who realises all the happiness he desires? Everything is in the hands of God. Therefore one should learn contentment.

He who forsakes his own community and joins another perishes as the king who embraces an unrighteous path.

Generosity, pleasing address, courage and propriety of conduct are not acquired, but are inbred qualities.

A learned man is honoured by the people. A learned man commands respect everywhere for his learning. Indeed, learning is honoured everywhere.

Beauty is spoiled by an immoral nature; noble birth by bad conduct; learning, without being perfected; and wealth by not being properly utilised.

Moral excellence is an ornament for personal beauty; righteous conduct, for high birth; success for learning; and proper spending for wealth.

Purity of speech, of the mind, of the senses, and a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platform.

Our bodies are perishable, wealth is not at all permanent and death is always nearby. Therefore we must immediately engage in acts of merit.

What good can the scriptures do to a man who has no sense of his own? Of what use is as mirror to a blind man?

Those base men who speak of the secret faults of others destroy themselves like serpents that stray onto anthills.

Beauty is spoiled by an immoral nature; noble birth by bad conduct; learning, without being perfected; and wealth by not being properly utilised.

Low class men desire wealth; middle class men both wealth and respect; but the noble, honour only; hence honour is the noble man’s true wealth.

He who has wealth has friends and relations; he alone survives and is respected as a man.

Accumulated wealth is saved by spending just as incoming fresh water is saved by letting out stagnant water.
Swans live wherever there is water, and leave the place where water dries up; let not a man act so — and comes and goes as he pleases.

The power of a king lies in his mighty arms; that of a brahmana in his spiritual knowledge; and that of a woman in her beauty youth and sweet words.

He who gives up shyness in monetary dealings, in acquiring knowledge, in eating and in business, becomes happy.

Time perfects all living beings as well as kills them; it alone is awake when all others are asleep. Time is insurmountable.

By means of hearing one understands dharma, malignity vanishes, knowledge is acquired, and liberation from material bondage is gained.

The poor wish for wealth; animals for the faculty of speech; men wish for heaven; and godly persons for liberation.

Learning is a friend on the journey; a wife in the house; medicine in sickness; and religious merit is the only friend after death.

The learned are envied by the foolish; rich men by the poor; chaste women by adulteresses; and beautiful ladies by ugly ones

A thing may be dreaded as long as it has not overtaken you, but once it has come upon you, try to get rid of it without hesitation.

She is a true wife who is clean (suci), expert, chaste, pleasing to the husband, and truthful.

When one is consumed by the sorrows of life, three things give him relief: offspring, a wife, and the company of the Lord’s devotees.

Learning is like a cow of desire. It, like her, yields in all seasons. Like a mother, it feeds you on your journey. Therefore learning is a hidden treasure
As long as your body is healthy and under control and death is distant, try to save your soul; when death is imminent what can you do?

He who runs away from a fearful calamity, a foreign invasion, a terrible famine, and the companionship of wicked men is safe.

Do not keep company with a fool for as we can see he is a two-legged beast. Like an unseen thorn he pierces the heart with his sharp words.

At the time of the pralaya (universal destruction) the oceans are to exceed their limits and seek to change, but a saintly man never changes.

He who befriends a man whose conduct is vicious, whose vision impure, and who is notoriously crooked, is rapidly ruined.

Avoid him who talks sweetly before you but tries to ruin you behind your back, for he is like a pitcher of poison with milk on top.

Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous.
Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness.

As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it.

The earth is supported by the power of truth; it is the power of truth that makes the sun shine and the winds blow; indeed all things rest upon truth.

The world’s biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman.

Purity of speech, of the mind, of the senses, and of a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platform.


Quotes on Religion, By Chanakya.

God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple.

Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing, but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into execution.

As a single withered tree, if set aflame, causes a whole forest to burn, so does a rascal son destroy a whole family.

A man is born alone and dies alone; and he experiences the good and bad consequences of his karma alone; and he goes alone to hell or the Supreme abode.

He who nurtures benevolence for all creatures within his heart overcomes all difficulties and will be the recipient of all types of riches at every step.

All the creatures are pleased by loving words; and therefore we should address words that are pleasing to all, for there is no lack of sweet words.

A man attains greatness by his merits, not simply by occupying an exalted seat. Can we call a crow an eagle (garuda) simply because he sits on the top of a tall building?

Sinfully acquired wealth may remain for ten years; in the eleventh year it disappears with even the original stock.

He who wears unclean garments, has dirty teeth, is a glutton, speaks unkindly and sleeps after sunrise – although he may be the greatest personality — will lose the favor of Lakshmi.

Eschew wicked company and associate with saintly persons. Acquire virtue day and night, and always meditate on that which is eternal forgetting that which is temporary.

We should always speak what would please the man of whom we expect a favor, like the hunter who sings sweetly when he desires to shoot a deer.

He who is prepared for the future and he who deals cleverly with any situation that may arise are both happy; but the fatalistic man who wholly depends on luck is ruined.


Even as the unborn baby is in the womb of his mother, these five are fixed as his life destiny: his life span, his activities, his acquisition of wealth and knowledge, and his time of death.

Quotes on Education, By Chanakya.

Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person.

Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth.

He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.

A man is born alone and dies alone; and he experiences the good and bad consequences of his karma alone; and he goes alone to hell or the Supreme abode.
Do not be very upright in your dealings for you would see by going to the forest that straight trees are cut down while crooked ones are left standing.

The wise man should restrain his senses like the crane and accomplish his purpose with due knowledge of his place, time and ability.

Purity of speech, of the mind, of the senses, and of a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platform.

He who lives in our mind is near though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far though he may really be nearby.

The happiness and peace attained by those satisfied by the nectar of spiritual tranquility is not attained by greedy persons restlessly moving here and there.

There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth.

The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction.

The earth is supported by the power of truth; it is the power of truth that makes the sun shine and the winds blow; indeed all things rest upon truth.

The biggest guru-mantra is: never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you.
Purity of speech, of the mind, of the senses, and of a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platform.


He who lives in our mind is near though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far though he may really be nearby.

Quotes on Integrity, by Chanakya.

A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people end up in difficulties first.

Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions: why I am doing it?,
What the results might be? and Will I be successful?. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead.

Once you start working on something, don’t be afraid of failure and don’t abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest.

The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. If you cannot keep a secret with you, do not expect that others will keep it? It will destroy you.

The king shall lose no time when the opportunity waited for arrives.

If a king is energetic, his subjects will be equally energetic. If he is reckless, they will not only be reckless likewise, but also eat into his works.

The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind but the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.

A man is great by deeds, not by birth.

One whose knowledge is confined to books and whose wealth is in the possession of others can use neither knowledge nor wealth when the need for them arises.

Time perfects men as well as destroys them.

We should not fret for what is past, nor should we be anxious about the future; men of discernment deal only with the present moment.


There is no austerity equal to a balanced mind, and there is no happiness equal to contentment; there is no disease like covetousness, and no virtue like mercy.

Quotes on Administration, by Chanakya.

Whoever imposes severe punishment becomes repulsive to the people; while he who awards mild punishment becomes contemptible. But whoever imposes punishment as deserved becomes respectable.

Punishment when awarded with due consideration, makes the people devoted to righteousness.

No deliberation made by a single person will be successful; the nature of the work which a sovereign has to do is to be inferred from the consideration of both the visible and invisible causes. The clearance of doubts as to whatever is susceptible of two opinions, and the inference of the whole when only a part is seen is possible of decision only by ministers. Hence the king shall sit at deliberation with persons of wide intellect.

He shall despise none, but hear the opinions of all. A wise man shall make use of even a child’s sensible utterance.

The king shall singly deliberate over secret matters; for ministers have their own ministers, and these latter some of their own; this kind of successive line of ministers tends to the disclosure of counsels.


Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Transformation the realm of new possibilities and unlimited potential.

People and organisations always look outside for help to grow and reach their full potential. While it is good to have such interventions, you should be cautious about the fact that while you may use external triggers, it is only you who can cause your real transformation and reach your true potential.

Our parents, families, relatives, society, education, work places, media etc. have conditioned our minds to believe and do things that they believe one should do and comply with. While there are many things you may need to do to comply to societal and legal norms, you may be surprised to realise that your true potential is not what the external world defines but exists within you.  


Almost all trainers, consultants and astrologers take your watch and tell you the time. To start with they establish their own credibility by proving that they and their tools know/reveal about your past and present. This gives them credibility to speak about the future possibilities which the clients readily accept and pay for. But the fact is that what you have constructed in your mind only comes out in such interventions and reinforcing them really means nothing. The real fact is that your past or present has nothing to do with the future. You are inherently born with unlimited potential. Transformation happens when you relate to your inner potential and possibilities, and stay away from the artificial limits created by man and society around you. You can have any future that you aim and desire and work for, that is true transformation and growth. Your own and others interpretation of you means nothing and is a mere human interpretation and not a reality. 

Your positive thoughts is the only thing that needs your attention and nurturing; you can use it to achieve anything that you want in life. Think Big and Grow.

Friday, September 25, 2015

It's what you scatter that will matter.

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily appraising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'
'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'
'Good. Anything I can help you with?'
'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'
'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it', said Miller.

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado, but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one.  Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about colour or size....they came to pay their debt.'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ...'

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral:
We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself...

An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work....

The fastest line at the grocery store....

A good sing-along song on the radio..

Your keys found right where you left them.

Send this to the people you'll never forget.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED!

Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Good Thoughts I've learnt that is useful for your daily living.

If  you take the time to read these, I'm sure you'll come  away with an enlightened perspective. Written by Andy Rooney, a man who had the gift of saying so  much with so few words, they're a random collection of thoughts, but the subjects covered  affect us all, on a daily basis. Enjoy.........

I've  learnt ...That  the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly  person.

I've  learnt ....  That when you're in love, it shows. 

I've  learnt ....  That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!'  ACTUALLY makes my day.

I've  learnt ....  That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the  most peaceful feelings in the  world.

I've  learnt ....  That being KIND is more important than being  right.

I've  learnt ....  That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I've  learnt ....  That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the  strength to help him in some other way. 

I've  learnt ....  That no matter how serious your life requires you to be,  everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. 

I've  learnt ....  That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a  heart to understand.

I've  learnt ....  That simple walks with my father when I was a child did wonders for me as an  adult.

I've  learnt ....  That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets  to the end, the faster it goes.

I've  learnt ....  That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask  for.

I've  learnt ....  That money doesn't buy class.

I've  learnt ....  That it's those SMALL DAILY HAPPENINGS that make life so  spectacular.
 
I've  learnt ....  That to ignore the facts does not CHANGE the  facts.

I've learnt .... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt  you. Revenge is a waste of time and is a negative energy.

I've  learnt ....  That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere

I've  learnt ....  That LOVE, not time, heals all  wounds.

I've  learnt ....  That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've  learnt ....  That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be  appreciated and loved.

I've  learnt ....  That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one  more time before she passed away.

I've  learnt ....  That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to  surround myself with people smarter than I  am.

I've  learnt ....  That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a  smile.

I've  learnt .....  That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your  looks.
 
I've  learnt ...  That life is tough, but I'm tougher. 

I've  learnt ....  That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the  ones you miss.
 
I've  learnt ....  That one should keep one's words both soft and tender, because  tomorrow one may have to eat them.
 
I've  learnt .....  That when your newly born grandchild holds your little  finger in his little fist, you're hooked for  life.

I've  learnt ....  That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all  the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

I've  learnt ....  That the less time I have to work with, the more things I  get done. The busiest person has the maximum time.

Good thoughts ought to be lived and shared. Go ahead .. God Bless...

Friday, September 11, 2015

Freedom to speak anything anytime. Being fully self expressed.

Any relationship be it personal or professional should offer us the freedom of full self expression.

A relationship that requires intense calculation and planned expression is more like a business transaction or negotiation.

Maturity lies in entertaining any conversation or communication irrespective of whether you subscribe or accept the same or not.


Also when you really care for a person it is essential to offer the other person a space to express fully and freely in a safe environment where the communication is not misused but tried to be understood through discussions.

Be your word. Take responsibility for your word.

Speak your mind. Call the spade a spade. Celebrate Life.

Tuesday, September 08, 2015

Celebrating Life. Enjoy every Moment!

Greetings,

Starting my Blog to enjoy and share my experiences, views and thoughts. Hope to add value to your life or business. Feel free to comment or talk to me if I can be of any help. Your feedback to make this initiative interesting is most welcome.

My aim would be to cause Transformation, Celebration of life and Enjoy every moment!

God Bless!

Ashok Chandran